crc: as I said earlier, if you ignore the loser, he will go away after some time. I've seen PLENTY of people like him and they're all the same. I just ignore the toad now.

ikorrelim: Do you happen to have any of those wonderful Charleston recipies? I have a Charleston cookbook that I bought 4 years ago when I was there, but local people always know how to tweak a recipe to make the food taste better. So please, do share! Go into the "culture" section and feel free to leave your best Charleston recipe!