Under Technical Difficulties . . . which says "This category is currently empty" . . . the post named "Posts disappear . . . where do they go?" can be found under "Last 24 Hours" with the URL http://www.france.com/mb/messageview.cfm?catid=4&threadid=547

Hope this is all of some help. I think I got most of them. I don't check the Penpals section so don't know what is happening there.

Good luck!!